The majority of our products are handcrafted and often times, made to order. Even if a product shows "In Stock", it may still need to be crafted by one of candle minions. Please allow 3-5 days processing prior to shipment before calling or emailing us and leaving us nasty-grams. Orders placed with items listed on "Backorder" may be held until all items are available for shippment, or may ship separately at a later time. You may cancel your order at any time prior to shipping. "Out of Stock" means just that - we don't have it. We will probably eventually have more of it, as we would just deactivate the product if it was discontinued. When we have it, it will be listed as "In Stock".